You remember a past post I made about going back in time and changing something in a relationship? I’ll go ahead and say that it’s just about left my system so I had one more sip from the cup before I kicked it out the mind. I wanted to know if I was the only one wondering about change and I know I’m not so I asked Nickie G!
Her answer was fast, not skipping a beat. She, like me, had also thought this through. The man’s name will be withheld, of course. Nickie G told me that there was so much she’d change but the biggest thing she could think of was space. Nickie had fallen for him pretty hard and as any person who falls hard does, she wanted to be around the guy as much as she could. However, now that she’s looked back on it, her former beau just really needed some space. Which is one of the reasons my beau told me he’d broken it off with his last girlfriend. It’s funny how attached you can get to people. The ex I talked about in one of my two back in time blog posts was someone I’d grown overly fond of, myself. I guess love just makes you do crazy things.
Back to the story. Nickie told me that if she had been able to go back in time, she would have attempted to salvage the relationship with the space strategy which was something I found unique. A lot of people, me included, would have wanted to go back to someone they hate now and hate them, then. I can’t be too surprised with her though because she’s such a sweet and naïve person. For all we know, her former bae could have been good for her; however, I doubt space would be the key to a successful relationship.
Regardless, I can’t put too much into this post because I’m not her and I only had 5 minutes to interview her before she left for work. So, needless to say, this one is a pretty interesting read compared to my decisions for the past.